Cuz he is still hung up on her….simple as that.

why is this an NYC question???

cause he is probably bored and looking for some action on the side, feels comfortable with you and it is less scary than meeting a strange new woman thats my bet

duh, he wants to bang her

what are you doing fooling around with a married man

perhaps he is looking for another piece of the pie, or he could just have developed a good friendship w/ her and enjoys talking to her and respects her opinion.

Actually, this answers Chef Brian 67, I just wanted to comment & say that he doesnt want to bang her…hello….didnt u read the question? She is saying he contacts her but never sees her, That means he is still in love with her, and has an emotional attachment to her. She has something that his WIFE doesnt have, or else he wouldnt call her or think of her at all…
and would rather BANG someone for the sake of banging someone, dont u think? Next time read the question before u throw a cold & brainless answer. She is special and he just cant forget her, or stop loving her, thats why he cant leave her alone.